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Sandy’s September 2017 Editorial

Posted on Aug 20, 2017 in Newsletter | 6 comments

Hello Everyone,

As many of you know, my beloved sister Pam crossed over on August 4th, 2017, almost exactly a year after our father did.  I am afraid my emotions are a bit raw at the moment so this editorial is going to be somewhat different from what you usually hear from me.

You would assume, that since my life work causes me to deal with the other side daily, through channeling and coaching my clients and teaching my students, that death would be easier for me to deal with than it is for most people.  I assure you that is not the case at all.  I am human just as you are.  I believe and tell my students that death is just a doorway into another plane of existence.  I agree with Abraham Hicks that there is no death as most people see it.  There is only life here, and then life there.  Yet death still affects me just as deeply as it does anyone else who has lost someone they love.  In my heart I rant that her life was too short, that she and I had so much more to do together, that her family still needs her…ultimately my feelings are not about her well being.  They are about my sense of loss and my struggle to cope with it.  It’s about self pity and my selfishly wanting to hold onto her in spite of her need to be free.

I am an unusual person in that I walk through this world with one foot on either side of the veil.  I hear, feel,  and see with those extra senses that allow me to see into the deeper underlying causes of this world we live in, and into the next world in ways most people are not even aware are possible.  I was able to communicate with Pam through our empathic bond even when she was in a medically induced coma, when I gave her strength, love and emotional support, and I felt her passing from many hundreds of miles away as a burst of loving light and energy; she gave me a sort of quick, excited and loving energetic embrace as her soul burst from her body and into the light of the other side.   I feel her visiting me frequently using that powerful empathic/telepathic bond we shared in life.  She often joins her spirit to mine for a moment or two, letting me know that she is there to share in the experiences and the sensations of whatever I am involved with and at those times I feel her presence strongly as if we are sharing the moment in life together.  I hear her voice and her laughter in my mind.  My cooking has improved dramatically (she was an amazing cook!).   All of this interaction is positive and loving and heartfelt and joyous.  She has shared her love by sending me visions and dreams of our close girlhood together.  She has let me see pieces of her life review as she allowed her life experiences and challenges to flow through her consciousness and be released.  I have done her After-Death Astrology Chart and know she was ready to pass, and I know how she and I will fit together in the future, connecting across the Veil as we already are.  I understand that in many ways we will be closer than ever before as the boundaries set by our often conflicting life experiences are no longer present.  Yet even having this edge that most people haven’t learned to embrace yet, I still feel the loss of her physical presence acutely, even though we didn’t live together and only saw one another occasionally.  Yes indeed I am human.

Loss, and letting go, is a part of life.  As I grow older and my awareness continues to expand, I am coming to realize that in order to grow and evolve each of us must learn to flow through our own existence, ever moving on to our next step, whatever it may be in life or in death, and readily release whatever needs to be released so we can grow.  Perhaps that is our biggest challenge as humans at this stage in our evolution.  Our minds want to hold onto the constructs we have built, whereas our feeling nature reaches out excitedly for every new experience.

I wish my sister well on her new and exciting journey into life on the other side, I look forward to the connections she and I will make across the veil, and I respect my selfish human need to grieve my way through my loss of her physical presence.

 I want to thank all of you who’ve read this to the end.  You’ve expressed another, wonderful aspect of our shared humanity.  You’ve shared your understanding and empathy, no matter where you are in the world reading this, and I thank you.

Love and Light,
Sandy Anastasi



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  1. Debra

    For You,

    You are our Sun ! THANK YOU and BLESS YOU for all you do.

    For your Heart,

    Earth hath no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.– Moore

    Sorrows are our best educators. A man can see further through a tear than a telescope.

    The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears.-John Vance Cheney

    Where there is sorrow, there is holy ground.-Oscar Wilde

    Love You, Mark and Debra

  2. Tiffany

    I felt like I experienced every emotion you are feeling and expressed with the passing of your sister. My heart goes out to you. I have been listening to your recordings and feel the connection. I have never talked to a psychic and have even resisted them in the past.yet when I accidental came across your YouTube I was immediately drawn to listen. Very strange for me. I feel I am in some sort of strange existence lately. I think losing a close loved one just turns the world upside down for awhile. I wish you comfort, healing, and peace at this difficult time and may you receive solace I have heard you offer to so many others.

    . . . . Much warmth, Tiffany 🦋

  3. Betty

    I am so truly sorry for your loss. I too lost my mother on June 11th… I can relate to the intimacy of having the light and love of my mother come to me as well the day after her passing…thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences…. your gift helps those on this side of the veil by having the courage and strength to communicate with the other side of the veil… As one human to another I feel your pain and also your deeper connection to your sister now

  4. Lynda Beard

    So sorry for your loss of your sister.
    May the Angel of mercy rest her wings
    On your doorstep.

    With Love, God Bless

  5. Jean C/

    My deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved sister.

  6. Lillian Medina


    I thank you for sharing such a personal experience,.
    I too lost my beloved sister too early this July.

    Your spiritual reaction perfectly described my experience: feeling the exact moment her spirit cross d over even though I was far away…and holding her so closely, even thought I can’t touch her anymore…and joyful to know, that she is always close by…

    Eternally grateful for it all..

    Wishing you peace and light…

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